Disabilities come in different shapes and forms. Most people are very familiar with visible disabilities: a person who needs a wheelchair or a person who needs a guide dog to support them in their everyday life, but what about someone with a disability not as visible? It’s as life affecting as the visible one, but they are not talked or understood as much as disabilities you can clearly see.
So what is an invisible disability? It’s a disability that is not noticeable straight away. Those disabilities could be: injuries, mental illness, physical conditions and many more. Because you can’t spot them on an individual, the disabilities could be overlooked and misunderstood. This could lead to discrimination.
People with invisible disabilities may be embarrassed or find it difficult to talk about their disability. For example, a young woman in her 20’s who has Fibromyalgia may not be able to tell people she is not able to stand for long periods of time, due to her restless leg syndrome and tremors. The woman will fear to be judged, because some people may assume or make a comment about how could someone so young have such problems. People who aren’t aware of her needs will develop negative attitudes towards her abilities. Lack of understanding and knowledge may hurt the person and lower their confidence.
For many years now people with invisible disabilities and illnesses had been victims of discrimination. In many cases, people who don’t look sick apply for a disability parking badge. They soon get judged by the public when they park in a disabled parking space. But what do people expect, do they want to see someone crawl out of the car, use crutches or drag their leg? They don’t know anything about the individual, maybe they rarely do their shopping, because they can’t find the courage due to pain they experience or they feel too isolated to face all those people in the supermarket.
on her car after she parked in a disabled parking space, full story Here.
Because invisible disability cannot be seen by just looking at someone, it’s important to create awareness and to change people’s attitudes towards it. To start heading in to the road of knowledge, we need to start making conversations, which will lead to a better understanding of what people with invisible disabilities and illnesses have to go through. This will help people to be more open about their physical or mental conditions and will encourage people around them to become more accommodating and accepting.
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Such great points. My son had encephalitis and Guillain-barre syndrome at the end of last year. He acts a little differently with his emotions and processing since the injury. He looks completely normal. He just acts like a “big baby” sometimes. We have to be sensitive to the walk of others. We never know what one is going through. Thanks for sharing.
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Aww all the best for your son.
I have talk to people about invisible disabilities and illnesses, many people don’t seem to know the bigger names. My family still struggle to believe i am physically not ok, because i look well on the outside.
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I completely get it. You keep writing with your words and touching others. I think family is the hardest to “convince,” but honestly, we have no obligation to “convince” anyone if something is bothering us. We walk with that.
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I know, I stopped convincing others. No one will live my life for me 🙂
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Amen! ❤️
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Wonderful and a great addition to a post I read yesterday by S.Hansen. You both make excellent points. It is such an ignored area of society it seems.
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Thank you. Yes it is ignored very much. Many people don’t seem to know about invisible illnesses.
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We need more people like you
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Aww thank you… 🙂 Same goes to you.
You and other bloggers on here are so understanding and supportive.
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You are welcome, I am really feeling a sense of community on here. Makes me feel part of something.
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Oh yeah definitely. Same like real time friends, only that we can’t physically talk.
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A meet up one day with everyone would be nice 🙂
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Yes definitely, I thought about that the other day 🙂
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Wow! I truly appreciate raising awareness of these invisible conditions and the entire human experience. Thanks! Keep it up!
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Thank you so much 😊
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I appreciate that you are sharing to raise awareness of the invisible challenges so many people face each day. I try to remember that I have no idea what someone else might be dealing with when I interact. A little compassion can go a long way.
Thank you for your post.
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Thank you for reading. Xx
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Good post.
I have chronic hip problems. Not something you expect in a young person and yet I have it. One can look fine on the outside and still have issues on the inside.
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I feel for you darling. Stay positive ❤
Many young people these days struggle with their health more than the elderly, all we can do is enjoy life while and when we can. Make the most of your days when you have less pain. That's how I do it 🙂 xx
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Aaaw, thank you.
I do. It came out of nowhere and turned my life upside down. But I am making the best of it. Things are not perfect but it always could be worse.
Thanks for your kind words.
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You take care. Your welcome xx
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I have chronic pain from multiple accidents and 7 years of domestic violence and I’m falling into a depression and don’t want to leave my house because you can’t see my disabilies and I’m so tired of the way people treat me…I’m so at my wits end…I don’t know why they make me feel I have anything to prove to them!..
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