And this is what I always ask myself- why do really nice people attract individuals who are not mature or motivated enough?
They either end up messing you around or not fighting for you and your relationship. They keep trying to blame you for their faults and mistakes, without realising that actually they are losing someone amazing and will never find another you.
It’s not your fault that they are not emotionally ready for a truly amazing person. If they are not fighting for you or doing little special things for you… Then they never will, unless a miracle happens and they realise how truly awesome you are.
Your well-being is more important than wasting your time on someone who is not ready to give you their time or to put some kind of thought in to your relationship.
It takes two to tango, but you can’t tango together if they are not willing to learn the moves.
K.Irgasevaite
This relationship would slowly kill your good personality.
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I know you may be tempted to think that maybe there is something wrong with you or maybe you are not doing enough… But don’t you ever dare to think like that, because you are doing everything right. Yes, you may make mistakes or not do enough sometimes, but if they mess up and then refuse to glue the broken peaces together, then there is nothing you can do to make them love or want you more.
So stay positive (I know it’s hard to do so sometimes), enjoy life and one day the right person will find you.
i was the exact same way! theres a person out there for you and they will find you. just give it a chance
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So true…
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I hope it happens sooner then later for me😀🙏
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I wish you all the best. 🤞❤️
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Thank you
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Great post!
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Thank you 😊
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My pleasure
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I used to think this when I was much younger but it’s true that some people aren’t ready for the same things. Such a well written article. Thank you!
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Aww thank you for reading 😊
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My relationships seem to get worse as I go. People have gotten so good at hiding who they truly are in the beginning, then I get into “let me save you” and think I can fix a person. After so many crappy relationships one always when the heck you’ll catch a break and find “the one.” Seems like unicorns will be easier to find at this point lol
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I feel for you darling. My advice would be, believe and think positive. Positive thoughts will bring a good relationship your way in no time. Xx
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Oh, yes! A positive mindset does bring about good things. Sometimes I need to remember that when everything around me isn’t quite so positive.
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